Saturday, February 2, 2013

Relationships- Why men pull away

Here we will review relationships and Why Men Pull Away:
Updated 3/6/13

It's seems that a trend for men that are in relationships is to pull away just when things seem to be going well. It just doesn't make any sense when men pull away from a relationship that seems perfectly fine. It all starts in the beginning to be very nice. A man is pursuing you. Over the next short while, all is perfect. Then before you know it, he just pulls away and just like that there is no interest. To a woman it is just unexplainable. How can someone become disinterested like that and simply turn away. For those that have been in this situation mentioned, you know how heart breaking this could be. The question is, why do men do this? There are many reasons why men pull away like this. If you ask many women they will say that men that do this are just scared. Others will say that men are not ready for a commitment aand back out of any potential serious relationship at any level. Some even more simpler reasons are could be that the man feels the relationship is not fun and exciting anymore. Compared to the very beginning, the excitement tapers off and just becomes a routine. We have to admit that any beginning to a strong relationship, there are strong emotions tied in with falling in love. The man wants this level of commitment and feelings. As the relationship builds and the bond grows, then he just turns it off so to speak and leaves his woman wondering what went wrong. But are there any other reasons why men change their priorities as a relationship is growing. there will be many reasons and they can be just about anything. You will not know for sure unless you simply ask him. The best way to just find out is approach him and ask. You may find that even though your man pulled away, he may not be out of this relationship all together. He may just need a little space. Space is a key ingredient. If a man pulls away,many woman respond by pursuing their man even more aggressively which can really be disastrous for the relationship because you are in his mind backing him into a corner which is the very reason why men pull away in the first place. The very opposite could happen and when your man pulls away, you don't ask him any questions and never find out the reason. You may want to find a common ground for the both of you. It is very possible that he may get himself back into the relationship over time. By simply communicating with your man and giving him some room your relationship has a chance to overcome this setback.If you find that your man is distant or seems to be and you just can't figure out why men pull away, read this blog and contribute to out message board.

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