Monday, February 4, 2013

Why Men Pull Away After Sex

Why Men Pull Away After Sex
Why Men Pull Away After Sex
Updated 3/6/13

I hear the same story over and over about Why men pull away after sex. It happens way too often regarding men pulling away after sex and many women are just confused and don't understand why this could happen. You meet a man and things are going great. The early phase is beautiful. You are both on the same page. The conversation is great while you are together or even on the phone. You find yourself on the 8 or ninth date and decide to get intimate. Suddenly, the entire scenario changes and you find your man pulling away. What just happened to the lovely relationship you ask yourself.
He stopped calling, ignores your calls and now everything just did a 180 degree turn. Men pulling away after sex is very common. It could happen for a few different reasons.He may of had meant to retreat after having sex all along. After all, it wouln't be the first time that something like this has happened and won't be the last. He may of have wanted to pull away from the beginning as soon as he accomplished his conquest of getting intimate.
Now that is an extreme condition and not a very pleasant one at that. But not all men think like that, let's face it. Some men many just get nervous about having to get even more serious than where they are currently at and with that may pull away for simpler reasons such as they fear having to settle down and commit.Let's think about this commitment thing as if you were the man. It is a big step that can be overwhelming and many choices will have to be made. These aren't small choices either. Some of these choices are purchasing a home or renting, and starting a family just to name a few which if you haven't had greaat responsibility up to that point, he may be just trying to avoid
having to be put into that big decision making process.
One thing that can be said about your man pulling away is that it may be best to provide him with some space. Forgetting about him altogether is not what I am talking about so don't take this the wrong way. Giving a man space to gather his thoughts and process the situation can be very beneficial. Not only that, without making an issue into an issue, his respect towards you will be even stronger if tke the "Go with the flow" type approach and not over dramatize the situation if he does in fact pull away. Remember, men are wired completely different from women so understanding a man's perception of the situation can help yourself deal with why men pull away.

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